I do not know a single woman who would not face a similar case: the child in the store violently requires chocolate and three ice cream. And just the same with juice. The neighbors look with surprise how your child is screaming and “significantly” shake their heads.
At this moment you are ready to fail in place of shame. Each child consistently passes through all the phases of this “performance”: first crying, then anger.
How and why, dear parents, this happens, and how to deal with it ?
First, calm down and be patient! In fact, you need steel nerves. Although children think in a completely different way than we, try to put themselves in their place (you will see that they often come to scream from rage). Follow these not cunning tips:
1) Do not call the child. By this, you will only increase its rage.
2) Listen to the child. Never say the word “no” before listening to the child.
3) Be flexible. Try to calmly talk to your child.
4) Be patient. Although it is clear that it is very difficult to put up in practice.
5) leave the rage of the child without attention. Ignoring bouts of rage is the best way to show the child that such behavior is not acceptable. “Time out” for him the worst punishment.
In no case do not swear and do not scream at the child!