Gypsy wedding. What is it? Many people wonder how the wedding ceremony and the ceremony of this people occurs? Lee, or you can marry gypsy girls for Russian men, for example. Well, a difficult question for those who are not familiar with this free people, but not for me, since I will tell a story from my life.
Such a girl lives in the world, an undoubtedly bright and strong personality, since she was able to break out of the bondage of the laws of her people. This girl was very young for Russians, but not for gypsies, since 15-16 years old is the most suitable age for marrying. Like everyone, she was spent in the groom for a long time already, a purely native gypsy, rich and authoritative, and if she were an ordinary humble “tolerated”, then she agreed to such a fate. But the people of gypsies are passionate, you do not enclose them in any chains and she went against all, against her relatives, friends and loved ones. And most importantly, she did not give a damn about public opinion. And all for what you ask? For the sake of great love! Yes, here is such a real sincere and all -consuming! Now submit to the readers’ court, the actual object of this pure feeling. The guy, frankly, was not quite decent, first bully in the village, a real womanizer, which other people did not care. But this sincere girl was able to change everything, turn his life over. After all, for his sake she went to everything, her relatives threatened her, she threw school, and how many slander from evil envious they had to hear. In general, the real story of Romeo and Julia. By the way, the guy’s parents were very against their son contact the gypsies, since having connected his life with the girl, he would have to take on all the other relatives. But the guy was nothing. At first, of course, he was hiding from her hot relatives, but after he dared and came to her father to ask his hands, claimed that he had finally found a man with whom he was ready to live his whole life.
The guy and the girl went to the city to try to live together, to recognize each other and after some time he made her an offer.
A wedding is a very responsible step, but for people who have experienced their relationship, this is only another confirmation of their love for each other. And now we will tell you how, in fact, we move from lyrical retreat directly to the wedding ceremony itself. Well, as many have imagined, the gypsy wedding is a noisy, crazy sight. Necessarily in national outfits and along the way, people present there will go through the pockets of passers -by.
I hasten to refute, this is an absurd conviction. Yes, there are thieves among this people, as well as in a wide variety of nations, but you just imagine people give their native blood to a person to a stranger, they are not up to your 5 rubles lying in your pockets. But let’s not talk about sad. So, after all, although the wedding of these people is not quite ordinary all the same, it will pass under all rituals. This people have many, the most remarkable moments that I will talk about now.
First, young people bless icons and bread. This happens when the young are on their knees in the face of the Lord. But to bless young people are given only to representatives of high society.
Secondly, little by the way, who knows about this tradition, is that it is precisely to the manufacture of this blessed punishment that only those women are allowed in whom family life has succeeded.
In general, the standard celebration lasts 3 days. The 1st day is a bachelorette party. But do not confuse it with a traditional Russian fencing. There are many differences here. First of all, you will not see drunk at the holiday. The bride sits separately from the groom, each of the young is in his own circle. The bride’s dress is elegant, but not yet white. Young people look closely at each other. There is nothing to do with the drunk and pig’s squeal of the Russian virgins and, of course, no reckless dances with striptezers and striptezers for “last time”.
On the second day they play a wedding itself. The groom comes to the bride with a bouquet in a house or in a beauty salon, where the bride is subjected to a full upgrade, then they go to ride around the city. The registry office may not be issued, but they do it only after the birth of children.
Of course, it does not do without feasts, where various songs, dances, dancing occur. Gypsies love to invite professional dancing dancing. They do not forget about photographers that capture the brightest moments of the holiday.
And I saved the most important law for dessert. This custom, without which not a single gypsy wedding is complete. This is a solemn deprivation of virginity. After the dances, the newlyweds go to the room specially designated for these purposes and after some time they take out a white sheet, which must be sprinkled with blood confirming the innocence of the girl.
In this text, I talked about such a wonderful event as a gypsy wedding, a wedding of a free people.