Among the numerous pre -wedding of the groom and the bride is one important task, namely, whom to choose for the role of a witness and witness for a wedding.
Who can act as witnesses? It is just accepted that witnesses should not be married. At the same time, it is better that they are never married at all. This choice is complicated, in the case when the newlyweds marry later all their friends, they all got married. But there is a way out here, you can take as witnesses a recently engaged, happy couple. Since such henchmen already have experience, they will perfectly cope with their duties. According to the idea, both two guys and two girls can act as witnesses. But this is not accepted in our country, but then, when representatives of two sexes act as witnesses, much more interesting. What is the role of witnesses at the wedding? Selected witnesses enter into their duties far before the celebration. The organization and preparation for the whole holiday go to their shoulders. To make the wedding unforgettably, they should be the first advisers for the bride and groom. What to choose an outfit, where to organize a celebration, how much to invite guests, so that the main part of the wedding remains in memory for a long time, provide field registration of marriage, high -quality video. The bride’s girlfriend should become a real savior in tickling minutes, support at the time of sincere happiness. She needs to help her a wedding outfit, worthy of meeting guests and groom, accept gifts and respond to congratulations. The witness should be a pleasant appearance, with a friendly and cheerful disposition, to be able to support a cheerful joke and dispel the longing if necessary. Friend is the support and support of the groom. He is the organizer of the boyfriend, the moral inspirer of the groom, his right hand. His tasks: the choice of the place of the holiday, cars, gifts, a direct part in the ransom of the bride, a thunderstorm Zabiyak and the partner of the tamad. This is a cheerful, pretty young man who knows how to insert a good joke and a strong word to maintain the right atmosphere of the entire wedding ceremony.
What trifles to take into account when choosing witnesses?
Choosing a bride’s girlfriend, many newlyweds, following the Western example, choose several maids of honor. On the one hand, everything is fine, and numerous girlfriends will not be offended, but on the other hand, the abundance of witnesses will only lead to excessive disputes and evidence, who is still right?!
Do not refuse to choose a brother or sister of the future spouse as a witness. If they are young and energetic and you have a good relationship, such a turn will only strengthen family ties.
The material drawback of the witness should not cause him to refuse this role. If, in terms of their characteristics, he or it is best suited for the role of a witness at the wedding, then it is better to offer them help in choosing a festive outfit than to give preference to other, richer, but boring witnesses.