The first thing the baby does when he comes to the world is crying. Such the first reaction in newborns. In this way, young children make it clear to their mother that something is going wrong. But even after the child learned to speak, he continues to express negative emotions with tears, because it is easier. Parents begin to worry that their child in comparison with the peers looks very touchy and tearful.
Temperament of the child.
Not all people are distinguished by a strong spirit and stress resistance. For example, melancholys do not differ in these qualities. Such children (including adults) have by nature a low threshold of sensations: they touch from what others will not even pay attention to. Little melancholys are not active at all, quite suspicious and not confident, they can even be offended by the most innocent remarks. At the same time, they remain quite disciplined, obedient, willingly worry and subtly feel the state of other people.
Parents of the melancholic should very wisely approach his upbringing, with caution dosing intellectual, physical and emotional stress. Increased tone to minimize and show maximum sensitivity and support.
Tears as a means to get what you want.
Когда взрослые чрезмерно услужливо реагируют на детский плач: дал конфетку, пообещал сводить в кино, купил машинку, только чтобы не ревел, то ребенок приходит к выводу, что слезы помогут получить ему то, что так хочется. Especially when this situation is repeated systematically.
The manipulator can be re -educated with a calm relationship to his actions. The child needs to make it clear that he will not achieve anything with screams and tears from his mother and dad, but there are other ways of interaction, such as coming to a peaceful agreement.