What is a transitional age? This is the age when the period of puberty in adolescents, when the formation of secondary sexual characteristics ends. It begins in different ways. Usually girls a little ahead of boys.
Most often transitional age is 11-13 years old. Most girls already begin to menstruation, and boys have ejaculation. The teenager is characterized by mood swings, aggressiveness, stubbornness, strives more for peers, there may be problems with study, etc. D. Parents should accept these changes in their children, both psychological and physical. Now conflicts can arise between the child and you much more often, and the child will perceive them much more acutely than before.
The deterioration of the situation can cause the reaction of parents to the problems of the conflict, their reproaches and discontent to the child. Worse, such a period is tolerated by those children who grow in the family, being the only child. The transitional age is difficult for children and adults, and no one will determine how it will take place in your family. To avoid neurosis in children, be patient. Usually at the age of 15, the glow is smoothed out.
Still, it is easier to please the girl during the period of transitional age.