Moms who appear a second baby undoubtedly more experienced, but at the same time, and are much more loaded with work. One – change the sliders for newborns, another – turn on cartoons, serve a dummy, correct the blouse. And so – all day. But you need not only to feed, care, walk and take care of two children at once. Somehow, you need to find time to take care of yourself and your beloved husband.
How to do everything, where to find time and effort?
Let’s analyze. The biggest problems in such families are inconsistencies of infants and a grown brother or sister, as well as children’s jealousy.
To solve the problem, it is simply necessary, competent mode. Organize so that one of the kids rises a little earlier than the second. Then you can dress crumbs without fuss and haste, change diapers, wash and comb your children.
The second important rule – accustom the heirs to independence. If a son or daughter can find a toy, but they, simply, laziness – do not rush to help. Let them cope on their own. Teach a child to pull on tights, turn on children’s fairy tales on TV, collect scattered games. This will take some time, but it will pay off the hundredfold.
Install the rules. Children are capricious when they understand that tears can achieve the desired. If you calmly explain to the baby that you will put the younger brother to sleep, and then, be sure to read the fairy tale – most likely there will be no problems.
Teach your kids to take care of each other. The sooner children begin to feel like family people, the faster the problem of jealousy will disappear.